in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result
the worst feeling in the world is to know you were used and lied to by someone you trusted
I’m gonna go with MURD—no, wait, hug. I’m going with hug.
I’m taking commissions for my cross stitches! You, too, can get a custom one (like the last one). If you want a crass stitch, hit me up on here! I think I’ll charge like $15 or $20, depending on how much text or how complicated the picture would be. :) (I also made one that says “Misandry for Life,” but it’s way off-center)
And I do iron them out when I’m done, don’t worry!
3-piece commission from Suikoden III